APPRECIATE YOUR LOVE ONES WITHOUT TRYING TO FIX THEM.Oct 8, '10 3:30 AM
My title says it all. My title is so powerful, so earth shaking. Believe me, if you apply this principle into your life, you will change your entire life - radically. You'll have less stress, less fights, more peace, more joyful.
Thank your loved one for the small things he does for you especially all the typical things he always does for you. Thank your loved one for her uniqueness. Remind yourself that this uniqueness attracted you to this person as friend, spouse, business partner, etc. Thank your loved one directly. Express it. Don't hide your gratitude. I promise, Gratitude will be like oil in the engine of your relationship. Your relationship will function in a new level.
SHOW THE KINDNESS OF GOD
Be kind. Show the kindness of God. Be kind to your family. Everyone has a tendency to be kinder to friends than to our own family. Because it's so easy to take them for granted.
Before you go out of the streets and look for a leper and a beggar, look first within your family. Why, sometimes, its easier to be kind to strangers than to family members. There are beggars and lepers in your family. They don't look like beggar and lepers but deep within they're hungry for the kindness of God.
GIVE KINDNESS TO THOSE THAT DON'T DESERVE IT
Give kindness of God to people who don't deserve kindness. To people who have offended you, hurt you, maligned you, slandered you and were selfish towards you.
If you give kindness only to people who deserve kindness, thats not love, if you operate in a "I scratch you back if you scratch mine" policy, thats not love. That's business.
Give kindness to people who are'nt kind to you. People hunger for the kindness of God. Its the only thing that can change our lives. Someone in your life is hungering for the kindness of God, give that person one act of kindness.
By: The Feast (Kerygma)
My title says it all. My title is so powerful, so earth shaking. Believe me, if you apply this principle into your life, you will change your entire life - radically. You'll have less stress, less fights, more peace, more joyful.
Thank your loved one for the small things he does for you especially all the typical things he always does for you. Thank your loved one for her uniqueness. Remind yourself that this uniqueness attracted you to this person as friend, spouse, business partner, etc. Thank your loved one directly. Express it. Don't hide your gratitude. I promise, Gratitude will be like oil in the engine of your relationship. Your relationship will function in a new level.
SHOW THE KINDNESS OF GOD
Be kind. Show the kindness of God. Be kind to your family. Everyone has a tendency to be kinder to friends than to our own family. Because it's so easy to take them for granted.
Before you go out of the streets and look for a leper and a beggar, look first within your family. Why, sometimes, its easier to be kind to strangers than to family members. There are beggars and lepers in your family. They don't look like beggar and lepers but deep within they're hungry for the kindness of God.
GIVE KINDNESS TO THOSE THAT DON'T DESERVE IT
Give kindness of God to people who don't deserve kindness. To people who have offended you, hurt you, maligned you, slandered you and were selfish towards you.
If you give kindness only to people who deserve kindness, thats not love, if you operate in a "I scratch you back if you scratch mine" policy, thats not love. That's business.
Give kindness to people who are'nt kind to you. People hunger for the kindness of God. Its the only thing that can change our lives. Someone in your life is hungering for the kindness of God, give that person one act of kindness.
By: The Feast (Kerygma)